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Warning: this article contains graphic content. “Bridget. Bridget. Dinner is ready.” Bridget’s mother raises her voice above the din around the family dinner table. Her 15-year-old is locked in her bedroom, ignoring the plea to join the rest of the family. But what Bridget’s mother doesn’t know is that, on the other side of that bedroom door, her smart, kind and sassy daughter is naked, tears trickling down her cheeks as she performs sex acts on herself, in full view of her laptop camera. Her tormentor is online. He is issuing directions. “Do this.” “Do that.” “You don’t want your parents to know about this, or the whole world, do you?” She knows this because he told her last night, and the night before, that if she doesn’t acquiesce, use her school ruler in this way and her hand in that way, what she’s now doing will be plastered all over the web. This crime of sextortion, a combination of the words “sex” and “extortion” where a victim is blackmailed to pay their attacker in one of two ways – with more-detailed sexual content or with money – has reached epidemic proportions, fuelled by both serious sex offenders and organised scammers targeting the most vulnerable. Up to 70 per cent of all new online sexual content police investigators are seeing is victim-produced, and much of it follows the same script. A child produces content for an adult who has tricked them into thinking they are a celebrity or influencer or someone just like them. The adult abuser then “sextorts” or bribes the child for more lewd content, or money delivered as gift cards, cryptocurrency, vouchers or online gaming credits. In Australia, according to eSafety Commissioner Julie Inman Grant, 75 per cent of those cases where the abuser is after more sexual content will involve tween and teen female victims. In those cases where offenders are chasing money – financial sextortion – teen boys are overwhelmingly being targeted. While most male victims are between 15 and 24 years of age, some are as young as 10. In at least one case, a teen handed over $10,000 to his tormentors. Across both forms of sextortion, the victims are often vulnerable boys and girls, looking for connection. Loading

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Teen victims feel trapped, unable to tell their parents about their initial bad decisions to trust a person masquerading as someone else and to provide that first image. They find themselves doing more and more on the orders of their tormentor. They make more videos, or they send the money demanded – and their persecutors then insist on even more because they know their victim can get it. The victims are everywhere: in small, remote outposts and big cities in Australia, and all over the rest of the world. In many cases, when investigators find the online content, they cannot find the victim; they are not sure where he or she might live. Australia receives many of its tips about online sex abuse from the Virginia-based National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC). That’s because US laws oblige tech providers to report suspicious online child abuse activities, including sextortion, to the centre. Michelle DeLaune is NCMEC’s president and CEO. She provides this real-life example to highlight the speed with which teens, especially boys, are being trapped. Let’s call this teen boy Tom. 8.07pm: Offender makes initial contact with Tom, who is a teenager. 10.07pm: Tom shares sexually explicit imagery. 10.23pm: Offender sends blackmail message, threatening he will release imagery unless Tom pays money. Two hours later, Tom “expresses suicidal ideation and stops messaging”. A few hours later, the offender contacts Tom’s girlfriend, shares the images and asks if she knows him. She responds that it’s her boyfriend and asks when the picture was taken. The offender says he will ruin her boyfriend’s life with the picture. 12.03pm: Only 16 hours after the initial contact, the girlfriend responds that her boyfriend has killed himself.

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DeLaune says such bribery attempts tend to quickly follow a teen’s decision to provide an image. “And it’s very aggressive,” she says. “It can happen in a matter of minutes, from the moment that a photograph is sent until the blackmail.” Outside the bedroom doors of so many teens like Bridget and Tom, parents are lost. Why has their happy, gregarious teen become so withdrawn? Why are they refusing to attend school? Why aren’t they eating? Educators, too, are finding more and more of the school day being taken up with what they see as a new, industrial-scale crime targeting tweens and teens. A multitude of platforms, including Facebook, Skype, Kik, Tinychat, Omegle, Wattpad and Snapchat, are being used. “It’s not a matter of if, it’s when your child will be contacted by a paedophile online.” Susan McLean, former Victorian police officer And what worries Susan McLean, a former Victorian police officer of 27 years, is that the reported figures are just a microscopic indicator of how big the problem is. She believes less than a quarter of targeted minors alert authorities, an estimate that is widely supported. “The risk is enormous,” she says. “It’s not a matter of if, it’s when your children will be contacted by a paedophile online.” McLean, who now educates parents, teachers and students about cyber safety, says every image will come from a bedroom or a bathroom: “And they are the two places that digital devices and cameras should never, ever be allowed. I see what happens and none of these kids who are being extorted are anywhere other than there.” Detective Inspector Jon Rouse, who recently announced his retirement from the Queensland police force after three decades of globally recognised work with his Taskforce Argos team, just shakes his head at the rise of sextortion. “If you’ve seen what I’ve seen, you would not allow your child to take their phone into their bedroom,” he says firmly. Sextortion is now the number one issue for online child sex crime fighters, and it is close to rivalling online bullying in schools. Indeed, it is now becoming so common that it’s splitting investigative resources dedicated to other serious online child sex abuse. Up to a million “users” or members are believed to have joined clubs hidden deep inside the world wide web to trade and chat about child sex abuse.

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So how is someone like Bridget or Tom drawn in to the point where they will remove their clothes and take orders from a stranger who might be in Africa or Europe or the US? The answer is grooming. This is the first step in a child being extorted, and it simply means that the paedophile or scammer makes contact with a child and befriends them. Let’s take the case of a teen girl – because this script is playing out, repeatedly, across Australia today. Loading Jon Rouse says at first, the perpetrator “might spam 100 kids in the hope that maybe five or 10 or even one or two will engage with them”. They’ll choose those with accessible friends’ lists on any of a dozen or so social media platforms, so they can claim to know other people their target knows, and they will try to befriend several of them in case they need to point to mutual “friends” as part of their fake story. Most times this is not a difficult task for the perpetrator. A big proportion of tweens and teens have publicly accessible friendship lists, and it is uncommon – in many of their circles, it’s almost improper – to turn down a friend request from someone who says they know someone who knows someone else. In the case of a teen boy, the photograph of an attractive girl might pop up in the same way, and after a vague, “Hi, we know a few of the same people”, they click as online friends. Then, with a connection made, they start talking online. Often, the groomer will talk about popular bands and use language that mirrors that of their prey. They’ll find common interests and build trust. In real life, the new connection is not Gracie, a 15-year-old from Melbourne, or Bill, who goes to a private school in the same city. It might be a 52-year-old male in the United States with a family in the next room, a convicted paedophile in Europe looking for a new target, or a 45-year-old teacher in Asia with a decade-long criminal secret. What is consistent, though, is

that it will be a fake profile, and almost always, in the online space, the offender will be male – irrespective of whether their targets are teen boys or girls. It’s natural to be curious, especially when tween girls believe they are talking to another tween girl. The talk will be teen talk. Often, it will touch on body parts and the idea of having sex. It’s natural to be curious, especially when tween girls believe they are talking to another tween girl about what sex might be like, or how her breasts are oddly shaped. Boys, often excited that a girl – who is really an adult male predator – has shown interest in him and wants to show him her breasts, will consider reciprocating.

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Perpetrator: Have u ever had sex? Girl: I soo so so wish I could have sex it sound so jucy [sic] but weird. With the conversation ongoing and the “grooming” complete, the fake profile then moves to stage two: convincing his prey to send a naked photograph or even a video. Often, he will suggest they talk somewhere else, on another platform – one that, as it happens, also allows videos to be passed back and forth, and where images can be freely swapped. As they chat, the online predator, masquerading as a peer, might send a photo of a young girl’s breasts, claiming they belong to him; or a photo of a penis – it all depends on who he is targeting. Once his prey has been groomed and holds no suspicions about their new online friend, he’ll ask: “Why don’t you send me something. We’ll be even then, and no one will ever know.” Loading A boy might send what is widely known as a “dick pic”, believing it is being received by the cute girl he is now considering meeting; his school formal is next year, so perhaps he could ask her to that, too. Similarly, a girl might think she’s chatting with a new peer friend. How refreshing to be able to talk to someone about this stuff, she thinks. “See, mine are smaller than yours,” she might caption a photo, sent from the privacy of her bedroom. As the chat goes on, she might even provide more intimate content. And this is the point where the disguised predator catches his prey. He might keep the ruse going for a bit longer, to get a close-up, or more detail, or a movie. “I want to see more of you,” he might say, or, “I like your body.” But he doesn’t really need anything else. He has a photograph and/or video of a young Australian tween or teen, male or female. And that will be the basis of his blackmail. In some instances, offenders doctor images to make the victim appear to be in an even more compromising position.

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